I have a question for you guys.

[Soldier's Girl]

I was reading some ivillage advice column (I know, I know…) today and there was a letter from some chick about her boyfriend and his possible cheating.

(Just as a side note, I don't understand why women write to other women with questions about men. Why not go right to the experts? It would be like calling a plumber when your car breaks down. It just doesn’t make sense….)

Sorry, anyway...this girl wanted to know if everyone else thought her boyfriend was cheating. Apparently this guy busted out some new moves in the bedroom the night before. Her logic was that if he had new moves he must have learned them from some other chick that he was doing.

My take was that maybe he finally felt comfortable enough to ask for some different stuff. Or, maybe he saw some porn the night before that gave him an idea of something he wanted to try. I don’t think that new moves = cheating.

But, I seem to be the only woman who thinks so. So, I thought I would go to the source and ask you guys. Do you think that if a guy tries new moves while having sex with his girlfriend/wife, or does things differently while having sex it mean he got the moves from some girl he is cheating with? Or simply: new moves = cheating?

P.S. …for the love of god I hope the new move wasn't handing her a cup hehe