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VirginiaB · #1 04-27-2008, 10:07 PM

and i need help and suggestions from you sexual geniouses. here goes:
i've known my boyfrind for 2 years and he basically introduced me to sex. he molded me from a beginner to a pro and now i have a higher sex drive than him. i watch porn (girl-on-girl, htreesomes feat. huge ... members), take care of myself, everything i can when he's not around. but my demands (more like fantasies) for sex at least 3 times a week wears him out.
i don't know what to do. i mean, i consider myself a catch, as do other people that i know and meet. i thought that he would flip and be ecstatic about how much i want it ... but he's not.
and my fingers don't reach far enough in.

The Godfather · #2 04-27-2008, 10:34 PM

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binary_jester · #3 04-28-2008, 12:31 AM

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Move to lovely Minnesota?

Flash · #4 04-28-2008, 01:21 AM

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Thats strange dont know to many guys who would turn down sex.He thinks 3 times a week is too much? hmm maybe hes not attracted to u lol juss kiding

U didnt give much details (except for wat porn u enjoy lol) but maybe things are getting repeptitive ? Try some new things he might get a little more into it. Men get fed up with routines after while and wan something fresh. I know im like that.Also it might happen that i like someone(or i tink i do) and after while i get fed up with them or see something else that interests me but thats clearly not the case since uve been togethter for 2 years. I have other suggestions but i thought id try this one first.

Shasturbator · #5 04-28-2008, 08:22 AM

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if you're still with the same dude that busted you open, I can almost guarantee that you are not a pro....and that may be part of the problem....

VirginiaB · #6 04-28-2008, 03:33 PM

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well that's a catch-22 because it wouldn't be right for me to run around and become a pro ... rite?
but as far as being a pro goes i can make him blast off in 5 minutes or less

love giving him bj's.

i mean, i try and go out of my way for his satisfaction, even if it means i don't get satisfied. i just want to break this cycle, and i have no clue where to start.
details: i've tried being spontaneous (like giving him a lapdnace in the middle of the kitchen), he responded but it didn't go all the way. in the car, i started to touch myself and then went in to give him head, and he stopped me, saying he needed to focus on driving.

do those scenarios help?

Randal Graves · #7 04-28-2008, 05:11 PM

He doesn't want to be with you anymore, but he doesn't have the balls to leave. Guys don't turn down blowjobs. If you're trying to suck his dick and he won't let you, it's not the blowjob that he doesn't want it, it's that he doesn't want the blowjob from you. It sounds harsh, but it's how I see it.

Shasturbator · #8 04-28-2008, 06:51 PM

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sorry, but I have to agree with randoy on this...been there done that...turned it down just to prove a point..dude wants out, just doesn't have the balls to tell you....

IndieEmoPunk · #9 04-28-2008, 07:19 PM

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three times a week wears him out? wtf. . . if i didn't at least have sex once a day with ex girlfriend I'd go crazy. . . it's like, something isn't quite right. . . one time, me and my ex got all fucked up at the bar, she was a mess when we got back to my house. . . .she passed the hell out, and i figured i wasn't getting any that night so passed out next to her. . . .woke up half an hour later to her riding me, and meanwhile I was in mid stroke, fucking her as well. . . . . i guess i was having sex in my sleep, until i woke up and we fucked for hours cuz we were drunk. . . . . that was great. . . .i'd wake up to blowjobs and hand jobs all the fucking time. . . . .

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i also used to fuck my ex in the woods while we were on walks, on the washing machine, almost where ever we could fuck and not get caught, etc.. . . .on the way back from bonnaroo 2006 she got completely naked in the car and started masturbating while i was driving back. . . .i focused on driving, and giving her a helping hand. . . .wtf. . .is he gay? i have to say, guys do get sick of routine. . . new and fresh things are always a plus, and changing shit up,

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i would say i was in a similar situation with the ex. . . didn't care to be with her anymore cuz she put me through a lot of grief and stupid bullshit, but how was I going to say no to constant blowjobs and sex? i still had feelings for her, but we weren't going to be together anymore. I broke up with her, but she still wanted to get back together. We tried the whole friends thing for a bit, but before we knew it, we were both naked and having sex. . . .

goonarms · #10 04-28-2008, 07:52 PM

Its a tad strange a man is turning down blowjobs... But i can sorta understand Blow jobs and driving don't really mix the best especially around traffic ahah could end up in a major accident