Long story short...
I was married got divorced, longer story for another day.
Met girl through a friend of the family, started seeing each other. Paying for 2 house, my primary which I trying to sell to finalize divorce, my rental because my tenants did not renew their lease. So I moved into my rental, sold the primary - paid off the ex wife.
Paying for my townhouse (rental), girl needed money left and right for her house, car, and everything which was legitimate. I paid for everything, that is how I was raised. A guy takes care of the woman (call me sexist I dont care, I think its the right thing to do), wellI have come to realize how unappreciative she really is after about a year and the only thing keeping me together is she has a body like a porn star. Pretty fucking dumb on my part wouldn't you say?? So I am a schmuck. I spoke to someone else on here who helped me talk through the situation, and I left one problem and literally bought another.
So yeah....thats me in a nutshell.
I can say Jap cuz I am a Jap! ...Jap jap jappity jap.lol
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the only question you really have to ask yourself is "am i happy?" if you are, who cares what you had to do (spend money) to get there. some people never do. if you're not...yeah, you're a schmuck. but it's never too late to make a change.
then whats the point?
i make jokes about being a gold digger all the time but i wouldnt actually ever use a guy for his money, i might as well become a hooker
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I would have gotten off cheaper if I had used one.
It was a fucking rebound and I know it, but I was determined no matter what to make it work. But sometimes you need to know when to stop trying to fix something that is destined to be broken forever.
I like probably everyone on here has lost a ton in life, mine has just decided to wrap itself up in the last 18-24 months of my life. Both parents dead, best friend dead, marriage dead, I wanted something to work out right.
I hate myself in the end for not being man enough to walk away after the first signs she was not going to be more than what she is.
Last edited by jcaf41 : 03-12-2009 at 11:43 PM.
Reason: wow....one hell of a 1000th post. I am depressing the shit out my dog right now.