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BigMac63 · #61 06-28-2008, 04:28 PM

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Don't tell Shasta. The restraining order expired a few days ago, but he hasn't realized it yet

Choppie · #62 06-28-2008, 04:28 PM

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Yep. It's kinda like a toothache, I can't help but keep messing with it.

Randal Graves · #63 06-28-2008, 04:28 PM

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Since I've been summoned I guess I need to give my two cents.

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If you & this chick have been fighting and make each other miserable, why the fuck do you want to be with her anyway? What does she do that is so great if you don't think she is giving enough to the relationship? It sounds more like you're in a comfort zone and would rather be in a dysfunctional relationship that you know than taking a chance on the unknown for the opportunity at a healthy relationship. It's like staying at a job you hate just because you are too scared to look for something better. Stop being scared of the unknown and just go for it. Sure, it's scary at first but it will get easier every time you try and fail. I guarantee this chick isn't the only person in the world who will date you. Even if you do want to get back with her in the future, she'll never want you back as long as you need her more than she needs you. Chicks don't want guys who are needy. Once you realize that you don't need a woman to be complete you will have a much better chance of having a healthy relationship with the next person.

It sounds like you are the chick in the relationship. I don't let the little things go either, but I don't bitch about it either. I just stop talking to a chick after I start getting annoyed and move on. If you want someone to listen to all of your problems, get a therapist. They're paid for that shit so they don't have a choice and you won't have to annoy the person you're dating with petty shit.

ms. cellany · #64 06-28-2008, 04:31 PM

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Ha, I was going to say that mention of Shasta is conspicuously missing from this thread...

BigMac63 · #65 06-28-2008, 04:33 PM

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What took you so long? This is totally your area. Hell, I suggested a donkey punch, for fuck's sake.

Don't leave a brother hangin' like this...

crudnasty · #66 06-28-2008, 04:34 PM

In reference to the OP, I had a very similar breakup a few years ago, it sucked to high heaven, but one thing I learned from it is that with the correct combination of drugs and porn, girlfriends can be made obsolete.

Randal Graves · #67 06-28-2008, 04:35 PM

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I do have a life outside of DSF.

just kidding....

jo_dile · #68 06-28-2008, 04:39 PM

we missed you Randal

AllHailMe · #69 06-28-2008, 04:50 PM

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I am that guy that stays at the shit job because he's too afraid to go look elsewhere. I can't handle being outside my comfort zone. I don't know anything else and I'm not a risk taker.

I have been the chick in the relationship a lot of the time, even she's brought it up in the past. I just can't bring myself to change and that's why it's so hopeless in my mind.

trespass · #70 06-28-2008, 04:50 PM

Well, I'm gettin in on this pretty late but I agree with most of what's been said. It'll hurt like a motherfucker. Time will heal that wound. It's fresh now. Spend time away from her. If you continue to talk to her, you'll just continue to want what you can't have and you'll be even more miserable. Don't think about getting back together. Think about moving forward. Put it behind you (easier said than done at first). Surround yourself with people that will support you. If it means this forum, that's cool too. Eventually, you need to get out there and start meeting people. I am going to guess you are either quite young or a serious introvert. If you're young, you will meet more people through school and work. If you're an introvert, go do something. Sign up for a gym class or a sports league. Something co-ed. Go meet people. But try and do something where you're forced to interact with someone whether that's floor hockey, or soccer, or ballroom dancing or whatever you're into. Just make sure it's not something that forces you to interact. Things like Yoga and stuff are too individual. You'll just be a wallflower.

Anyways, good luck. It'll get better. I guarantee it.

P.S. donkey punch + dirty Sanchez + the shocker = way too much fuckery