I've fucked on the first date, as well as going four dates in and no fucking at all. More often than not, it's usuall the former.
Someone else on here said it, and while it may have meant slightly sarcastically (sarcasm on here? Never. Absolutely unheard of.
), it's kinda true: it depends on how far she lets it go.
I used to think otherwise, but after taking several months off from dating, I went out on a date Friday, and it went pretty far, despite the fact that she made it clear during our conversations that she does not really do anything like that on the first date. Mind you, I am not complaining, just saying, if no one stops you and it's not rape, then is it really anyone's fault?
Life is short. If both participants are enjoying themselves, and no one feels threatened or forced, then I say, "Go for it". But, hey, that's just me..