and i need help and suggestions from you sexual geniouses. here goes:
i've known my boyfrind for 2 years and he basically introduced me to sex. he molded me from a beginner to a pro and now i have a higher sex drive than him. i watch porn (girl-on-girl, htreesomes feat. huge ... members), take care of myself, everything i can when he's not around. but my demands (more like fantasies) for sex at least 3 times a week wears him out.
i don't know what to do. i mean, i consider myself a catch, as do other people that i know and meet. i thought that he would flip and be ecstatic about how much i want it ... but he's not.
and my fingers don't reach far enough in.
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Thats strange dont know to many guys who would turn down sex.He thinks 3 times a week is too much? hmm maybe hes not attracted to u lol juss kiding
U didnt give much details (except for wat porn u enjoy lol) but maybe things are getting repeptitive ? Try some new things he might get a little more into it. Men get fed up with routines after while and wan something fresh. I know im like that.Also it might happen that i like someone(or i tink i do) and after while i get fed up with them or see something else that interests me but thats clearly not the case since uve been togethter for 2 years. I have other suggestions but i thought id try this one first.
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well that's a catch-22 because it wouldn't be right for me to run around and become a pro ... rite?
but as far as being a pro goes i can make him blast off in 5 minutes or less love giving him bj's.
i mean, i try and go out of my way for his satisfaction, even if it means i don't get satisfied. i just want to break this cycle, and i have no clue where to start.
details: i've tried being spontaneous (like giving him a lapdnace in the middle of the kitchen), he responded but it didn't go all the way. in the car, i started to touch myself and then went in to give him head, and he stopped me, saying he needed to focus on driving.
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He doesn't want to be with you anymore, but he doesn't have the balls to leave. Guys don't turn down blowjobs. If you're trying to suck his dick and he won't let you, it's not the blowjob that he doesn't want it, it's that he doesn't want the blowjob from you. It sounds harsh, but it's how I see it.
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sorry, but I have to agree with randoy on this...been there done that...turned it down just to prove a point..dude wants out, just doesn't have the balls to tell you....
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Agreed!!!
when I am not into a chick anymore I don't feel like hitting it either, and it has nothing to do with looks.
However( Contradiction time), Relationships ebb and flow, no one fucks like rabbits for ever, and sometimes your hot for your lady and sometimes she can leave me the fuck alone.
Girls always need to know where they stand in the scheme of things and guys don't.
Girl: "I know you like me but, why do you like me."
Guy: "If I didn't like you you wouldn't be here, now could you move away from the T.V."
If he still likes you and isn't cheating on you might still be all right.
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