I need honest opinions. Been friends with this guy since childhood. We hung out a lot, but we both grew up and went our separate ways. I stayed here-he moved out of state. We reconnected back in 06 at an event connected to our church and hadn't seen one another in over 10 years at this point. Sparks flew and we spent every single moment together. We kept in touch almost daily after this. He was in medical school and just kept telling me hold on. So I did, I saw other people, but he was the one I wanted. Short story long after several years I find out hes in a relationship with someone else. I was pretty furious that he didn't tell me, and egged me on thinking that there was an opportunity for us once he finished. Turns out they were almost engaged. She was moving cross several states to be with him. He dropped the ball and I and several other girls he had been "Stringing along because I wanted to keep my options open if this relationship didnt work out" <===his words. I told him he was a prick and stopped talking to him for almost a year. We got back into contact and he dropped another bomb-he had a one night stand and got someone pregnant. He just found out-had a DNA test done and it was his. His relationship fell apart and I had already forgiven the fact that he hurt me-and I just listened, and told him some really hard things about the person he had become. He drifted away again and got his life together. We had another blow out because he asked me if I could see myself marrying him someday and I said hell no you're an ass. So we're still cool with each other. We've both apologized for the hurt we caused one another and have moved on-as friends. Haven't seen each other in several years and now his business is finding him coming down to my general area for work. He wants to meet up in person. I don't know what to do. Part of me says Nah, but the other part says maybe that's not such a good idea with the history we've had.
Be honest...I can take it. Ive just bout thunk it to death and I need others opinions to make me think more about if this is the best decision.
Anyone can chime in...even noobs. I want to hear it all. Thanks guys.
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It depends if you can see him and not get too attached. Odds are you are not going to end up together. Stranger things have happened, but it's unlikely. But if he makes you happy, it beats sitting around talking to us
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Too late. The siren song of skinny jeans and skittlerex lured him back to his people. We won't see him for another 3 months.
Honestly Jo for a guy in med school he's made a lot of stupid mistakes. His honesty with you only comes out when he's at the end of his leash or you find out something that may hurt you. If you can go out with him as a friend and be cool about it do it. I don't know if getting romantically involved with someone who constanly fucks up is the best idea for anyone much less you. Giving him a face to face opportunity may show that he's changed and with your past with him you should be able to see it. Good luck.
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I used to play the same game (minus the whole getting a girl pregnant). It is how I actually got my nickname (no, not my present DSF name) so I can speak from experience.
The best thing you can do, for you and him, is to never talk to him again. This guy is doing NOTHING except holding you back.
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I agree with Smeegsy, Jo. Sounds to me like he chronically uses and lies to women. If you can go into knowing that and get your jollies from him physically without getting strung out and hurt again, I'd say go for it. I don't think any of us know you that well on here, so we might not be qualified to give advice.
Okay, Dr. Phil aside... fuck him and then kick him in the nuts.
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If you can see him, maybe fuck him, and forget him, cool. If you think you are going to feel anything for him other than disdain move on. The guy obviously doesn't care for you. He may not like himself, but he certainly has no respect for you or any of the other women that he has strung along.
This guy has caused you nothing but pain outside of a few moments back in the 90s.
If he wants to see you now it is because he wants to get laid. The only reason people look up old flames on facebook is to see if they got fat or if they stand a chance of getting some. This is no different. End of story. Everything else is bullshit.
He still deserves a kick or two in the nuts.
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