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ata033 · #1 07-02-2008, 07:18 AM

I have a big question that I need answers too. If my ex-girlfriend

1) throws me out of the house because I'm cheating on her

and

2) has already began dating again

Does she have the right to be jealous that I've started dating again too? I got in a huge fight with her when I went to pick up our kids because she doesn't think it's appropriate that I'm dating again. However, she's been dating for about a month now. I'm not dating the woman that I cheated with; it's someone that I've just met and we hit it off. I think it's hypocritical, but maybe I'm a stupid jackass. I'm interested to know what other people think.

DAS · #2 07-02-2008, 07:20 AM

Yep, sounds about right... She wants to be happy, but wants you to be miserable pretty much for the rest of your life...

Badcat · #3 07-02-2008, 07:23 AM

You're a jackass for cheating and not ending it with your ex like a man before sticking it to another woman. That being said...I think it's ok to date as long as you respectfully do so with kids involved. She's going to be pissed no matter what you do.

MickC · #4 07-02-2008, 07:27 AM

I'd say if its ok for her, it should be ok for you.

Unless you are just dating for the sake of it because she is, of course..

The other thing is, maybe she is just dating to get back at you, and secretly still wants to be with you.

Some types women are as un-trustworty as fuck... they will even try and sneak in with the humans.

I mean, how can you trust something that bleeds for 5 days and doesn't die?

(Sorry ladies, no offence... I have been waiting to use that one for a while now..

)

ata033 · #5 07-02-2008, 07:29 AM

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I think you both are absolutley correct. She's definitely gonna be pissed no matter what I do, and I am definitely a prick for screwing around on her. She didn't deserve that. I'm just kind of hoping that she can get past it and not involve the kids. I don't mean that she would do it directly, but the argument was in front of them (as much as I tried to keep the girls out of it, she was so angry that she just started ripping into me right there as we were getting them off to school).

Nekyo · #6 07-02-2008, 07:33 AM

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pretty much what he said

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Hillarious

**~~barnanjeto~~** · #7 07-02-2008, 07:33 AM

SHould've broke it off if you wanted to fuck someone else, but she dumped you, your golden to date other people in the unwritten book I've heard.

If you dumped her and she hadn't begun dating and it was within' like a month I would say give it a bit more time, but thats not what happened fuck someone else in my honest oppinion, you obviously couldnt wait too.

trespass · #8 07-02-2008, 11:26 AM

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I third this motion

TheSNakE · #9 07-02-2008, 11:31 AM

Don't let her know you are dating until after the divorce. It will be ammo for her lawyers and you as the man will always get fucked by the court system. Do yourself a favor and keep things to yourself.

ata033 · #10 07-02-2008, 12:25 PM

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If there is a silver lining to any of this, it's that we were never married and don't have to worry about the divorce stuff. I live in Cincinnati,OH and the state of Ohio doesn't have common law marriage or palimony laws, so there I'm safe. And, if she sues me for full custody, she has a lot more skeletons in the closet than I do; so that's not an option for her.