[el_victorino]

Between marriages I had somewhere around 20 threeways, all but two the "good" kind, and they were all varying degrees of awesome, but the thing that made it so was the fact that they involved mostly girls from the same social group and the fact that I was "seeing" three of them, all of them knew about each other, and for the most part, it was varying combinations of those girls and girls from adultfriendfinder (remember back when it was free?) or other singles sites. Nobody was committed to anybody and there really weren't any feelings to hurt since nobody had a vested interested in anybody else. I'm glad I got that out of my system back then, because in a committed relationship with an established partner, there's just too much room for someone to be jealous - "you liked it too much" or "you paid more attention to her than me" and no way to predict what happens the next day. One of them involved another couple that my girlfriend and I met online. The other wife had never been with anybody else before and she wanted to try it. Husband I guess wanted to watch. So it was the wife and me, while my girlfriend and the husband watched. Later I wondered how he felt. It had been his fantasy but I imagine that there's a lot of room between thinking you'd like to watch and actually watching. I did shake his hand as we were leaving, for what that's worth.

As I was typing that, I realized I probably didn't even wash my hand before shaking his. That's just bad hygiene there.