Not *all*. I don't have daddy issues, I just have self worth issues
Anyways, the stripper is just hustling you. And let me tell you why.
First off any guy I ever had interest in dating, I NEVER told him to come into my work. Fuck that. It's important to keep those two worlds very far apart. There's also this unwritten law to never date a guy you give dances to inside the club. The big thing too is why give some guy you have interest in some hot dance inside the club, because later on down the road it's going to come back to bite both of you. You'll assume she does this for everyone and she'll get sick of trying to convince you otherwise.
I mean, why else would she want you to come in and pay her? If she wanted to turn you on she'd give you a free dance at home. Or a free VIP at work I guess, if she can do that. Every club is different. Regardless though, it's bad news and drama.