What does this make me?
 

Okay, so let me start by saying that I'm not as nervous about titles or what other people think about me as some tend to be. But I'm curious about something.

Years ago, when I was in high school (this event was way back in like 1992) I had this bud that I hung out with at work. One weekend during the summer I went to stay the night at his house as we were going upstate to a water park the next day. About 2am I wake up and someone's sucking my cock. I look down and it's him. My first response is to knock him off, but I'm horny, it feels good, and I don't want to risk him biting my cock off. Anyhow, he finishes and goes back to sleep. The next night the same thing happens, he never asks me to retaliate or even really mentions it.

Since then, nothing like this has happened, although I've had offers once when I was married the first time from a gay friend of my first wife's. So my question is does this make me bisexual, gay, straight, what? I will add in that I enjoy Pred's tranny thread a great deal, and I think that I could possibly cornhole some gay dude but I'm not sure, and I'm not really attracted to any man that I've ever seen, but can't rule out the possibility. I've read some of the fucked up shit some of you have gotten into, and am curious (not bi-curious, I don't think) what you all would consider this to make me.

-SRD

Yeah, definately gay IMO.

Each to their own though, as long as you're comfortable with what you're doing then why worry what others think.

But that's part of where the confusion comes in... I'm not "doing" anything. Haven't "done" anything like that in years, and I didn't really "do" anything then either except breathe heavy and come into someone's throat. I think that Bob Guccione (Penthouse) once said that he believed everyone was bisexual and in different degrees of denial. I don't know about that, and I know that I am not into looking at guys or thinking about guys in a sexual way. But trannies are intriguing to me, and since I'm married I don't get blowjobs anymore so blowjobs (from either sex I suppose) are definitely appealing to me. Ah hell, if the dude in the kilt says I'm gay, maybe I am, but I kind of doubt it.
-SRD

You got balls, I'll give you that. I don't think you are gay dude. You just miss blowjobs and you're a horn dog. Ever feel like reciprocating when he blew you? If you did then maybe you are bi. But don't stand for that shit from the wife dude. No blowjobs ever? Fuck that.

True, you aren't doing anything, it's being done to you. Hmm, strange, I suppose it's gay(ish). I'm a bit confused now, I see your point in this one.

^^^ That's what swayed me to say 'gay' though.

SRD,

It is not me who will label you.

You will label yourself and it no one else's business what you decide for yourself if you ever decide at all.

It did take balls to post that though. A hell of a lot more balls than I have to start the threads that I started.

Just don't let anyone tell you what to do since they probably have more to hide than most.

That was a hypothetical... and I'm not sure I can even picture how such an event would ever take place. Letting some guy blow me (although I didn't really "let" him I didn't stop him either) is way different from sticking my cock in some hole. For the longest time I was very picky about who I slept with, because I thought I could get them pregnant and end up having to deal with their shit for the rest of my life, and because I didn't want my dick to turn black and fall off (if it turns "black" and gets bigger that's another matter). But then I had some medical news about me and sterility, and I'd be a lot less picky now if I weren't married.

I don't guess I expected the majority here to determine my tax filing status or anything, but was curious to see what the majority of you would say. I'm not afraid of being judged, and it's not as if any of you are going to be waiting in the parking lot at work today when I leave to suck me off or try to force me to suck you off, so I feel pretty safe confiding this semi-anonymously to you fuckers.
-SRD

I agree, I don't think a lot of people would admit to that.

You asked for an opinion and I gave mine but, as I said, do what you want dude, I certainly don't think any less of you (or anyone) because of their sexuality.

gayyyyyyyyyyy

hold a dick in your mouth for a while, if you like it, then youre gay/bi. if it makes you want to vomit and die, then you are not. simple, really