question for the ladys
 

ok so awhile back i had a girlfriend and she did not like me having my hands on her head while she was giving me head, so i got in the habbit of not doing it, and my next girlfriend was down on me and came up and was like whats wrong? and i was like nothing, and she told me that it was weird that my hands werent on the back of her head and grabbing her hair so i was like ok..... and of course i took advantage of her telling me to do so... but just wondering whats your stance on this and why

can you say "like" a few more times? Please????

i think we're all wondering just how in the hell you managed to land a gf in the first place. must be your eloquent way with words.

i don't think the fact that he didn't have his hands on the back of my head would throw off my bj giving abilities rendering me unable to give one. i can think of a few better places for them.

Playing playstation?

lol well that's usually where they are but i was thinking more along the lines of my boobs

Triple ...... you are too fuk'in funny. I never had a gf that would even let me have the tv on in the same room, let alone a playstation.

Suz ... since you are the only female talking in here, you can either back me up or call me a nincompoop. I just found most women hate having their head held or pushed during a bj unless they like it rough.

Nincompoop!

i've never really thought about it honestly. it reminds me of something i read on orsm once that was one of his "only in porn" jokes and it was saying while a girl is giving you head it's very important to hold her there and keep reminding her to suck it. i thought that was funny so perhaps our little noob here thinks porn is how everybody does it. i think if you trust the guy you're with then you should have no problem with wherever he chooses to put his hands.:)

I deserve that.
suz .... you're right. I was basing it on his question and not looking at the relationship issue. Trust is a big key. Thanks for setting me straight.