Just based on what little you're telling us VirginiaB, and believe me, you can hardly sum up an entire psychological issue in a couple of paragraphs, but, yeah... he's just not into you anymore, but doesn't want to give up the easy access to sex.
I've been that dude, and I bet it's because his big thrill was being your 'first', 'teaching' you the ways of his world, and making you the perfect lover for him all-around. Once he achieved that, what does he have? It was the thrill of the hunt, I think, and once he caught and domesticated you, he got bored. He was in lust with your wide-eyed wonder and new experiences.
The honeymoon phase for him is over. But I guarantee you, he doesn't want to share you with anyone else. You ditch him and hook up with someone else, and he'll be jealous as sin. Try it, even if it's just a friend you do nothing with. He'll wake up if even remotely thinks you are practicing his education on someone else.
If he doesn't, there was other crap going on, and you're better off. Good luck.
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DING!
He is tired of you, but doesn't want to ditch you for some reason. How long has this disinterest been going on? Chances are he's stringing you along while he plays the field of the side. Possibly is just keeping you around until he finds a replacement.
Or, he's fucking dumb or gay. 3 times a week is a compromise for me, not an ideal situation.
i have never seen a vagina, but at least i dont live with my mom
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Agreed!!!
when I am not into a chick anymore I don't feel like hitting it either, and it has nothing to do with looks.
However( Contradiction time), Relationships ebb and flow, no one fucks like rabbits for ever, and sometimes your hot for your lady and sometimes she can leave me the fuck alone.
Girls always need to know where they stand in the scheme of things and guys don't.
Girl: "I know you like me but, why do you like me."
Guy: "If I didn't like you you wouldn't be here, now could you move away from the T.V."
If he still likes you and isn't cheating on you might still be all right.
Bianry, are you a Minnesotan?
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yea same here buddy, i like mine with vodka,
but seriously what you need to do is just go off sex with your boyfriend for a while, he will then want to fuck you so bad because he isnt controlling the situation,
I say we all line up and give this poor lady all the dick she needs!!!
Oh, and I've never turned down head in my life. Even if I hated the chick. Head is head. You can forget a lot of shit when you have your crank banging away at some tonsils.
Sorry, I'm callin' BS. Whoever VirginiaB is, they are looking for someone to step up to the plate and say "I can if he can't."
Sounds like a ploy to screw with you guys.
No one is biting though, so BRAVO!
If you are serious VB sorry for my remarks. Either dump him or find someone just for sex on the side.
Just make sure it's safe. Maybe your guy will miss it when he's not gettin any.
For the love of baby jesus, dump him or shut the vagina. Simple as that, you are not happy, and if this is a "relationship", that should be a concern of his. If it's not, obviously there is a problem. So either dump him cause he's not satisfying you, or cut him off. If cutting him off doesn't bother him, then.......
I think it'd be hilarious if she dumps him cause he won't fuck.