Question: You start dating someone. What are the deal breakers in the home?

What are the deal breakers that you might find at the person you started dating's house/apt?

Hypothetical question: You're dating somebody, you like them and everything's going well, when you see their place for the first time.

What would be an absolute deal-breaker upon you seeing it there? Less severe than a deal-breaker, what would be some turn-offs?

I'm interested in the DSF ladies' answers but i'm sure Nachos wants to hear from the guys as well ..j/k Nachos

Seriously, anyone can answer... Share any stories you have as well.

Back in the day, I ended up going home with this older chick after a party. She lived in a trailer park. Once inside, the place reeked of cats. She explained that she had two cats and they were having a territory war with the hallway to the bedroom being the front line. There was plastic all over the floor there. Long story short, I still fucked her, but after, it was time to GTFO.

[FortySuz&Two]

once in high school i went home with a guy after school and his room was a mess which was fine, so was mine, but he had skid marked underwear just laying in the floor. more than one pair. i tried to ignore them because when i was little my mom used to babysit these kids and she always wanted us to pick up our dirty clothes and put them in the hamper when we got ready for school in the morning. well the one morning i forget and leave my panties laying in the floor i guess she decides to teach me a lesson and just leaves them there. you had to go thru my room to get to the bathroom so they were there for all to see until i got home from school and saw them. it was mortifying.

[troup]

Are skidmarks quite common? I have seen some marks on girls panties but thats a bit more understandable but I can't remember ever leaving skidmarks except when I had food poisoning.

I am quite young to have a flat to myself so girls tend to come to my place mostly. I have never really paid too much attention to my surroundings when I have got back to a girls place mostly because I would be drunk/high and more concerned with trying to pull (get laid). I think the only real turn offs for me would be:

• somewhere thats is overly orderly as I always feel like I can't do anything or move just in case I fuck up their perfected little haven.
• I hate it when people have pet birds too, I don't see the enjoyment in looking at a bird in a cage other than to have a feeling of control or power.
• Just as much as I dislike overly orderly, dirt is nasty. Clean mess is the way to go.
• Signs of Cocaine or Heroin use. Most coke users I have met are like children to be around - attention whores and overly dramatic. Heroin is an immediate no-no, I doubt I need to explain myself on that one.

I think if someone was aware of the place being a shithole and apologised it would at least tell me they want to make it better so I doubt I would hold it against anyone.

[ThatHaole]

Dead bodies, beanie babies, anything by Phil Collins. Those are all instant deal breakers.

bullimia

[troup]

Oh yeah, fat people.

[ThatHaole]

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Anorexia ok?

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I assumed that was a given

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yeah. as long as there isnt a tupperware container full of old vomit under the bed, its cool.

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Is that the voice of experience or caution?