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well..if she broke up with u once there's no saying she wont do it again.
if she made an impression of you and clearly has no mood to go on a spiritual discovery since she teases men as a job (not judging), she won't change it soon.
you're a nice guy who understands her.
going for a lap dance will probably result in a happy ending, yea... but she wont be there the second day.
but u'r already tempted...u have to go see her... just think really hard before taking it the next step... consider if u'd be better off single again.
i personally couldn't see myself trading a girl i had a great time with and enjoyed talking to for someone that was marginally more physically attractive and far less reliable.
sex is great, awesome, an important part of any relationship.. but it's not a good foundation to base a relationship off of. when there's a relationship that sex is the only thing holding together, it usually devolves into some fucked up psychodrama shit. no, no. give me the girl that comes home every day and tells me when something's bothering her. you need more than just sex to work with.
You guys have all had a lot of good advice and it all makes sense. I'm still a bit spastic right now when it comes to what I'm going to do but I'm getting towards figuring it out.
My biggest problem is that the stripper does call me quite often and we get along really well. I have yet to go see her and the one time I did attempt it, I was pulled over on suspicion of DU and didn't make it. I didn't get a DUI, (and I'm not superstitious) but I'm thinking it was a sign I shouldn't bother going.
Also my girlfriend has been sick for the past week and I've barely been able to speak with her, let alone see her. I realized that if I'm already missing her when it comes down to a week, I definitely don't need to be fooling around on her with some ex hook-up.
The problem was, and still is, that I'm just thinking with my dick. It's pointing one way and my head is trying to go the other!
I'm think it's because I never slept with the stripper that I am so drawn to it. If I had slept with her before, it probably wouldn't be an issue. If she wasn't so damn hot...
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I haven't been talking to the stripper as much lately, I think she knows I'm avoiding her, or at least doing my best to do so. But of course she knows how to keep me on my toes.
The girlfriend was over last night and after a movie and deciding to call it an early night she hopped into bed. Unfortunately at the same time my roommates came home so we chit-chatted and the girlfriend fell asleep. When I went back into my room I checked my cell and had a couple picture messages. I figured they were from my old roommate who likes to send pictures of his poo and boogers and whatnot. They weren't.
It was stripper girl who again wanted me to come watch her dance. She wasn't nude but MY GOD! She looked amazing. Needless to say, I make one step forward and she drags me 10 back.
^^^And you're right about a girl with daddy issues, but from what I saw, she doesn't really have any...then again, who knows what goes on behind closed doors.
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Dude, the stripper just wants attention. She is never going to give you what your girlfriend can give you. Is fucking her or "watching her dance" really worth ruining what you have?