Updates:
We've banged twice since i did this post. It was earth-shattering, and exactly what i needed. i kind of just bumrushed him the other day and there you have it. it was something he wasn't used to coming from me. and i got to give him his head again, which i love to do
The problem remains that he thinks we bang too much...
Thanks evryone for your advice, even the harsh ones. I appreciate it. But what i'm going to do is shut down shop until ... well i dunno.
And p.s.: i can't send you all nudes yet! it's only the first post