dude idk. i'm not gonna bleed out my ass over anything here, but i WANT to WANT to only fuck one girl, cause i'm lazy and i don't like looking around. i'll do crazy shit to avoid getting bored. maybe it sounds beta or whatever, but i'm cool with that. sex is always better than jerking off, when you have a steady supply, why risk it. nothing says a strange piece is going to last, and the longer it does, the more likely you are to get your ass busted.

i'm not saying anyone should stay around when they're miserable..

oh and... as sweet a gesture as it would be if my wife would let me fuck outside the relationship, i would totally not buy that she was really cool with it. i'd take it as a sign that she was overly willing to sacrifice her pride and security in the relationship to provide a little extra somethin somethin, and that would get me horny enough to fuck her until her pussy sounded like a balloon getting rubbed dry, so i wouldn't need to anyways.

cool talk aside, i really dig trust and committment.